Nurture the Love of Learning with a Strengths-Based Approach to Autism Interventions

A strengths-based approach to autism interventions

A couple of weeks ago, a colleague* said something that hit me like a punch to the gut. She pointed out that for our kids on the autism spectrum, we spend most of their school day and most of their therapy time working on the things that they find the most challenging. Meanwhile, neurotypical students, spend most of their time nurturing and cultivating their strengths.

A Lesson from My Own Life

Take me as an example of a neurotypical school experience. One of my challenges is that I'm awful at memorizing. But nevertheless, I loved school and thrived. I mostly avoided the classes that required heavy memorizing. I dropped AP history in about four seconds.

Instead, I spent a great deal of my time engaged in things I was good at. I got to choose things that made me feel like a competent, and therefore confident, student. And, other than biology, it helped me to not hate school.

Of course there were things I missed out on. Inaccessible teaching methodology made me dislike science and history. Eventually, I got older and found ways to learn that matched my learning style. But when I look back, my challenges with memorization were just a small part of my school experience.

These days, every once in a while, I get dragged into trivia and humiliated. But generally, I avoid things that will showcase how awful my memory is.

I do not try and remediate this weakness like playing memory games or reading books about memory strategies. In fact, I generally avoid memory tasks as much as possible. These activities just don’t pay off in terms of building my skills. In fact, they have such a damaging effect on my self-esteem I simply choose not to engage with them.

So instead, I focus on the things I’m interested in. The things I am good at.

If school had been "memorization practice" to remediate my deficit, I would have been miserable at school. And my self-esteem would have plummeted.

Luckily, the people around me saw my strengths and helped me cultivate them. I learned enough strategies to help me succeed despite my mediocre memory. But more importantly, I learned how to focus on the things I was naturally good at doing. And those things—like, for example, writing—have served me over and over in my life.

The School Experience of Kids on the Spectrum

Consider the school experience of our kids on the autism spectrum. Over and over we create behavior plans, write social skills goals, and create special classrooms to teach remedial skills.

Autistic kids are taught how to mask their autism and try to use the social skills expected of neurotypical students. They learn how to suppress their need for movement or other types of sensory input. They try to remediate motor and academic challenges. They learn new speech and language skills.

Providers like OTs and SLPs push into classrooms to make sure that students are practicing these skills throughout the day. (Here you might picture the OT with the “whole body listening” visual crouching next to the student reminding him to have “listening hands” in social studies class.)

We withhold the things our kids are interested in and good at over and over again by using first-then schedules and token boards.

It's easy to think that helping a child boost their remedial skills is the most important thing we can do for them. If certain daily activities aren’t quite so hard, they’ll be free to cultivate a love of learning, right?

But asking our autistic kids to constantly struggle against their challenges can do two things: rob them of the love of learning and take away time they could be spending to cultivate their skills and interests.

Can you imagine the vast number of things an autistic child needs to keep in mind during a school day, on top of all of the regular school requirements?

“Don’t forget to look them in the eyes”

“Start your letters at the top”

“Do not make that sound in the hallway”

“Take turns on the swing set”

and on and on and on.

If you read that list and think, “That doesn’t sound so bad.” Remember these are things that are likely really hard, really unnatural, or simply nonsensical to an autistic child.

To me, this sounds exhausting. And like something we should all deeply reconsider.

A Strengths-Based Approach to OT

There are therapists who rely on a behavioral approach, using rewards and external reinforcers to motivate a child. For therapists using a behavioral approach, intrinsic motivation and joy in daily activities are likely not the goal. Instead, compliance is the goal.

But, there are others of us who don’t see compliance as the goal. We may nevertheless reflect and discover, “I think I do strengths-based therapy, but really I’m not so sure.”

Here’s the thing: the answer to my struggles in science and history was not to spend more time practicing memorizing. I just needed to modify the activity by using a few tips and tricks to get by. But to truly thrive, I needed my teachers to teach differently. I needed them to teach in a dynamic way that required less memorization so I could actually learn.

In order to teach our kids on the spectrum effectively and fairly, we need to be able to teach in a way they understand, striking a balance between asking an autistic child to learn new skills and asking for the change to come from elsewhere, such as changing the environment, the teaching style, or the activity itself.

We don’t need to ignore or avoid the challenges our kids on the spectrum face. But, we also need to make sure we aren’t focusing so much on challenges that we lose sight of their strengths, interests, and positive self-worth.

Two Examples of Strengths-Based OT

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